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Caris Adel

Grace In the Darkness

Grace and justice feel like opposites.  Justice punishes the evildoer, and grace lets them get away with it, under the guise of love.  Or so it seems.  So it’s understandable in a case like Jerry Sandusky’s (because he’s a case now, not a person), that people would all lean hard towards justice. It’s hard to…

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Trying To Be Grateful

It has been a really rough week, and I have gotten kind of crabby.  Tonight I’m throwing a 30th birthday party for my husband….well, sort of.  We scheduled it for 2 weeks ago but no one could come.  If you throw a party and no one comes, is it really a party?  So we’re doing…

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Links for the Weekend

A smattering of links I’ve bookmarked because they were interesting, entertaining, or otherwise worth a read. These are links to all the posts I’ve tweeted about (and therefore are my favorites) because of #mutuality2012 this week. Much thanks to Rachel for heading this all up.  I have learned so much and been so inspired from…

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In Defense of Strong Women

My 5 year old daughter sees this picture, and stretches her arms way back and says “There are THIS many girl movies.  Enough to fill the whole city!”  As she sits watching one, I overhear a bit of it and smile.  Barbie is saying “I’m going to talk to her.  This isn’t right.  I need…

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Leaving the Tradition of Inequality Behind

Yesterday I talked about needing better options for marriage. Today’s post is about equality being our option.   I grew up with a domineering, sometimes emotionally abusive mother, and a mild-mannered dad who just wanted to keep the peace. I can’t write about my marriage without talking about my parent’s marriage.  I wish I could…

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Links for the Weekend

A smattering of links I’ve bookmarked because they were interesting, entertaining, or otherwise worth a read.   This song just popped up on my Pandora station and I love it! Falling Slowly Absolutely horrifying and appalling – Rape victims say military labels them ‘crazy’. I’m doing a Bible study on Scouting the Divine, and I…

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Festival of Faith and Writing, the Final Day

On Essays – Patrick Madden Essays are the study of the everyday, but transcendent and transformative. “I have no more made my book than my book has made me.” – Montaigne The written ‘I’ and the writer ‘I’.  The character ‘I’ is not the writer ‘I’.  Essay conveys the quality of the author’s mind.  Your…

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